How to Approach Women Easily

January 30, 2011 by In The News  
Filed under Internet Marketing Orlando

Seducing a woman is a gradual process with a number of steps, but it begins with knowing how approach women.  This article is to help you take the first steps toward approaching women effortlessly.

Let’s face it – the main reason guys are uncomfortable approaching women is the fear of rejection.  If you attempt to start a conversation with a woman, you’re making it known that you’re interested in her. You’re also making yourself vulnerable. Getting shot down can wound a man’s pride.  Developing a strong attitude can help protect you.
It is possible to be relatively immune to anything negative a woman might dish out. Extreme confidence is your best ally. You need to feel good about yourself independently of any woman’t initial response to you. A man who is very confident and self-assured won’t be bothered by one woman’s opinion or even a group of women’s opinion. He’ll feel good about himself regardless of what they do.

Even though you might expect the opposite, not caring if you are rejected makes it less likely that you will be. The difficult thing to do is developing the self confidence to get started.If you’ve had some success in life and with women, it’s easier to maintain your confidence once you’ve found it.

As in a lot of areas in life, it can make sense to “fake it ‘till you make it”. Imagine how a truly confident man would feel. Try to capture that feeling yourself. This is not deception. It’s you becoming who you want to be.

It can help to practice by approaching and talking to women that you actually aren’t all that interested in developing any relationship with.  Since you’re just practicing and don’t want anything from the woman, her response doesn’t really affect you and you can me more relaxed in the interaction.
Do your best to make a good first impression but if she responds poorly, so what? It was actually generous of you to gift her with your attention. One aim here is to get to the point that you’re comfortable approaching woman and honestly think it’s their loss if they miss the chance to know you better.

Developing this “it’s her loss ” mindset will keep you from appearing timid and insecure when you start approaching women you are interested in.

None of this is to say you should become an arrogant, obnoxious bastard.  A confident man doesn’t need to brag and he doesn’t need praise from someone else. His confidence comes from an internal knowledge of himself.

When your practicing with women, act with honor. As you practice, you will very likely find that a number of them will show obvious interest in you. If you don’t genuinely honestly reciprocate, don’t lead them on. Spend some time with them, thank them for the chat, then leave.

You’ll learn more about the psychology of this approach at the Most Important Seduction Secret. And I also higly recommend that you go to Flirt Master to sign up for thier free report on the 33 rules of being an alpha male.

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